The check up went well yesterday. We glad to see the baby is active and keeps on jumping. Everything is fully formed, moving very well and the heart beat shows that he is healthy. But his mom doesn't look well. eat less and nauseate all day long. At this moment we are not sure either boy or girl, but we refer it as "he" first ;-). After 6 years of waiting, we just pray that Allah will give us the best zuriat to us. As of yesterday, he's exactly at 13 weeks and 4 days. ( 3 months ++ ). Mel's weigh is loosing. it started at 49 then slowly decrease to 47 and yesterday it was 44.5 . According to our gyne, it's normal for the first trimester, and hopefully her all-day-long morning sickness will be over soon. Mel kept on asking the doctor. "so the baby is healthy?" ."you see, he's jumping" We spent for quite sometime checking the baby on ultra sound. The doctor has been nice too, explaining the fully formed baby to us. It's miracle because the size of the baby just 2++ inches.
Then after the check-up, the doctor advice Mel to take more water because she looks dehydrated by looking at her dry lips. I pity mel because it's very hard to get malaysian food. I tried to cook but it didn't taste good and Mel said "tak payah masak dah abang. tak sedap".
So far I'm OK with all comments from her :P. Luckily i don't have to sleep outside, we just need to have some border and I'm trying my best not to cross the border. She conquered all the pillow and left one with me. Once in a while she will push my face aside because she smells garlic?? Huh !!. HeHe. Sometimes it's funny looking at her. Some friends reminded me, it will be 9 months of hell for you. HaHaHa. No lah. when we played card, she wanted me to lose, and would stop the game if i won. We have a board game that we used to play every weekend with our friends here, and I will remind her not to play if her intention is to win. else everybody could see your pregnancy emotions. Not everybody has the empathy feeling. So be carefull !! ;-)
Then, the next question from Mel."am I safe to fly now? I want to fly back in two weeks times". "OK you are safe to fly now. 2 weeks times should be fine because you just passing the first trimester. Take aspirin on the day of flying. stop folic acid and start taking materna. you may get all the lab report and bring it home. I'll be taking leave too." Ok mom-to-be gonna be home!!.
Once home (rumah kat sini laa), I got Mel's year end ticket and her "no-show" ticket to bahrain and went to Qatar Airways. I checked the price from the internet first and 16th august is the best date to fly. HeHe because the price is a bit low ;-) i save a bit because i just need to top-up the difference by canceling the year end ticket and getting some refund from "no-show" ticket. She will be flying on 16th August at 2.20 pm and InshaAllah will be arriving at KLIA on 17th August at 3.00 am.
I believe every parents-to-be would have a plan what "title" to be called. Mel has been planning for years to be called Mommy :P and I insisted to be called "Ayah" only. But every single day now, Mel is calling me "daddy". "Daddy, nak air.. baby nak air" How am going to turn over him soon :P. It would be funny if the baby address me "Daddy, nak ayaq" HaHaHa. It's a long way to go, let's see who will win the battle.
Just couldn't imagine, back to Padang jeri and my baby call me "daddy, lapaaa laaa" Hahahaha. At this moment let the mommy wins because that is the best for her. Seeing her happy is the best thing in life. It just that, since she got pregnant, Mel no longer dress up like she used to be. No make up, and simply clad any "indon" tudung when going out. for the next 6 months everything is OK for you lah ;-). Once baby born, don't look "slebet" anymore :P
Here, I would like to thanks to everybody for praying for us, and keeps on praying and hopefully we will be having a healthy baby and the best zuriat from Allah. To our families, we have no intention to hide but we have our own reason to do so. Although we are very happy now, we still couldn't get rid of butterflies from our tummy until the baby is born. Let's pray together....
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ADA KA ORG MENGANDUNG BERAT BADANNYA TURUN, TAK PERNAH DENGAR LAGI. APA PUN TO MEL PLS TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF AND HAPPY MANGANDUNG.
16 hb aku nak kelik kg... ayah aku nak buat kenduri sket.. He said that it had been a long time not making kenduri arwah di Air Suda. Moreover, it is already more than 6 months, i am not going back home.. -:(
Pls take care urself Mel.. We will visit u later in Malaysia..
selamat berpuasa sorg2 tp xpa order je
alhamdulillah! im happy 4 u gee!
memang dah lama menunggu...nanti ada la geng anak aku nak main nanti :D
waktu ngandung ni memang dia ikut orang la kot..waktu yem dulu memang berat turun waktu 1st trimester tu..tapi pastu naik plak ;)
cik kim, ok kot.. harap start 4 bulan naik lah.
jem: mu balik la kapung tu. mel balik sorang ja.
landen: tu lah. kena doa byk byk, nanti bley lah ngan anak bongsu hang tu... tgk alif dah besar. just imagine in 10 years time, he might be having a gf and perkenalkan kat hang ekekeke. cool man...
gee, ko nak besan ngan aku tak?
adun: ko bagitau mel ko gay. Mel siap tanya aku lagi ekekekeke.
tu saje cari alasan nak skip dari kena kenen...bohong sunat tuh... hooho..sori ekk mel..:P
ok... aku kelik kg la.. melawat parent kan satu ibadah juga.. -:)
Enche Haziran and Mel,
Kongratulasi! And to both Mommy and Ayah do take good care.
p/s: tu 'zuriat' oversea ka zuriat Malaysia... hehehehehe
adun: ok lah gitu hehe
labu: thank you very much. based on calculation made in doha. most likely the baby will say "i was born at HUKM". so doa lah kat kami huhu
congratulations gee... macam cakap luca brasi (movie The Godfather) "...may the first child be a masculine child."
tracy. tqvm, moga2 begitu lah :-)
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